If you're a person of faith, like we are, you want to know that when you visit a marriage counselor you won't be told to give up and divorce. You want to know that the counselor you're seeing is marriage friendly, comes from a Christian world view, and wants to help you achieve a healthy relationship that will last a lifetime.
We are Christians who do professional counseling...what that really means is the therapist draws from research to help couples heal their relationship. We prefer to let the pastor deliver the Sunday school message and they usually let us stick to counseling the couples.
People come with a variety of perspectives and our first goal is to understand the couple's goals. We understand that some people do want faith based counseling and some do not. It's our job to provide a safe place to work on your relationship free of judgement. It is also our job to be experts at marriage building not preaching.
You don't give up easily on your commitment and neither do we. We aren't naive though. The counselors at both our Tulsa and OKC locations know that people will make their own decisions about their life and their family. We also believe that doesn't make you bad people. It simply means that you're doing what you can with what you've got.
You will never be made to feel like a failure because...well...you're not. We believe in marriage and we believe that everyone deserves the warmth of love and acceptance in their life. It doesn't mean we won't stretch you and grow you. We will most certainly do that! But you won't be left alone in the struggle.
You'll hear what you need to hear. You will hear truth. You won't get fluff or sugar coating.
Most of our couples discover that their relationship is salvageable. Most people discover that their spouse was really just as lonely and lost as they were. Most people find their spouse just doesn't know how to reach out and share the feelings of loneliness, sadness, shame, hurt, and fear. All you see is anger, criticism, defensiveness, and avoidance.
So no wonder you feel so helpless and albeit hopeless sometimes in this marriage. But all is not lost! Even wonderful Christian couples find themselves lost in their marriage. You just need the guidance of a skilled therapist who knows how to use science for the glory of God and for the saving of your marriage.
Your kids will thank you for making your relationship a priority.
In fact, our methods are so successful that 75% of the couples completely recover and 86-90% make significant improvement within just the first 15-20 sessions. To make it even better, 90% maintain their improvement even 3 years after finishing with us. That means people are getting better and staying better.
You can do this. We can help. Click here to schedule an appointment.
