How Much Is Couples Counseling?

Counseling hourly rate vary depending on the therapist you chose. You will find all of the details about cost, payment plans, and scheduling HERE.  

This is one of the most asked question people have.  We totally understand why you would want to know....it's important to know the cost of counseling.

Most of the time people really want to know they are getting the best care for their dollar.  No one wants to pay too much or get too little.  Surely you want the best help and for the best deal.  That is what we offer at our Tulsa and OKC locations.

We offer the very best service, product, and outcome for your money.  How do we do that?  We have the highest standards for couples therapy in the state.  We only use research based methods with outcome studies showing that what we are doing works.  

We have a number of different payment options.  We have two different paths for counseling or coaching.  You can come weekly for a few months or you can get it all done in a couple of days.  

The hourly rate varies based on the skill level and experience of the person you choose to see.  Start with the quick quiz that will get you to the right option HERE.  All the payment information is outlined and explained on the video page of the online orientation.  

Don't worry it's free and will help you right away.  At the end of the orientation you will be able to set your first appointment and you will likely be able to find an appointment within a few days or within a week or so. We have two locations, one in Tulsa and one in OKC.

Payment Plans Available For Those Who Want Marriage Counseling But Need Help Financially

Payment plans for couples therapy so you can get help for your relationship without the stress

No one wants to feel like they're over paying for anything.  No one wants to feel like they've been taken advantage of or have been tricked into buying something they don't need.

Most people understand that you pay a specialist rate for a specialist and a generalist rate for a generalist.  Why is that?  Well because the value of what you receive is greater.  It should be greater, right?

But there are times where you really need something but you just can't afford to pay out of pocket at the time you need it.  We totally get that.  That is why we have partnered with PayPal Credit.

PayPal Credit offers 6 month no interest financing.  Now you can pay as you go with PayPal Credit or you can pay in advance for a discount.

Don't let finances keep you from getting help for your relationship!  To claim this payment plan, all you have to do is:

  1. Complete the online orientation

  2. Click the schedule now button at the end of the orientation

  3. Choose PayPal as your payment option after you've chosen your appointment

  4. When you're directed to PayPal choose the PayPal Credit Option

  5. Complete the application and check your e-mail for the confirmation!

Would you like to learn more about PayPal Credit?  Check out their FAQ page here

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Should We Do Christian Counseling?

If you're a person of faith, like we are, you want to know that when you visit a marriage counselor you won't be told to give up and divorce.  You want to know that the counselor you're seeing is marriage friendly, comes from a Christian world view, and wants to help you achieve a healthy relationship that will last a lifetime.  

5 Ways To Keep The Kids Occupied During Couples Therapy

Kids are a huge blessing! Love for our children is often what brings us to couples therapy. We want to be happy and we want our children to have a happy childhood, right?

It’s important for your kids to know you take care of yourself and your marriage. Putting your relationship first is helping the children and family.

Most find that having someone watch your kids while you take care of your relationship is the best choice you will make. It is much easier to concentrate with fewer distractions.

How To Speed Up Couples Therapy

When choosing to do couples therapy there is so much to be aware of. Chances are you’ve never done this before. If you have done counseling then it may not have been a good experience and you’re looking for something new or different.

Many couples only have one shot to convince their partner to do counseling. If you choose the wrong therapist or option you risk discouraging your spouse from trying anything again.

This experience will be different. It will be so much better.

How To Get The Most Out Of Marriage Counseling

We have 5 tips to get the most out of marriage counseling.

How Do Most Affairs Start? (It's not what you think)

Do you avoid conflict and feel uncomfortable sharing negative feelings? Do you or your partner avoid discussing important things out of fear of conflict?

When important negative feelings are sidestepped, over time, it creates emotional distance. Emotional distance can cause one or both partners to feel lonely.

Emotional distance or feeling lonely is a vacuum that needs to be filled. Many affairs start when one partner can't confide in their spouse.

The More I Reach The Further I Feel

Maybe you fight, maybe you don't....

Maybe you just don't feel close and the more you try to reach for your partner the further you seem to feel.

You walk on egg shells trying not to start another fight. But it's inevitable. All you have to do is make one wrong move and a terrible argument ignites.

You can't even mention the smallest thing without everything spiraling down to reminders of years of failings.

Now you’re wondering how to fix things. What can be done for your relationship when it feels like you’ve tried everything?

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How Do I Talk To My Partner About Marriage Counseling?

I receive a lot of emails where people ask, "my partner wants to reconcile but they aren't ready for counseling. How do I convince them that we need to do marriage counseling now." You know you need it, you want it, but someone just gets cold feet...it's not unusual! There are a few things you can do to help them take the important healing step for your relationship.

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How To Have A Difficult Conversation With Almost Anyone

Recently, one of my friends deeply hurt my feelings.  Instead of talking with her about it I tried to ignore how I felt.  It didn’t take me long to begin seething on the inside.  I struggled to think kind thoughts.  I began to rewrite the long wonderful history we’ve had as friends with a negative spin.  

Have you ever been there?  I think we all have been offended or hurt by someone we care about at some point.  It can be really hard to just let it go.  

In my situation, I love my friend, and I want to keep our relationship alive and healthy.  I knew that if I didn’t deal with this well our friendship could fall apart.  

Here’s how I did it…

  1. So I began to notice the ways I handled similar situations poorly in the past.  

  2. Then I began to construct a new 10 step plan that I felt would achieve the desired end result…that is what I outline here for you in this post.

  3. Then I tested it in a few different situations.

If you find yourself hurt by others and you can’t seem to “get over” the hurt of it then read this!  I outline a step by step approach to initiating a difficult conversation with almost anyone.  

How Does Abuse and Emotional Neglect Make Someone An Avoider?
How Does Abuse and Emotional Neglect Make Someone An Avoider?

Understanding the Avoider’s Past So You Can Gain New Ways To Interact That Help You Break Out Of Old Ruts

We’ve talked a lot about what makes someone an avoider in previous articles on our website here and here.  We also explain more about why it matters and in different contexts.  But there are some other areas I want to dive deep into because they also play a huge role in your marriage. 

There are several things that can make someone grow up to become an Avoider. In this post we’re focusing on the aspects of your spouse’s past that make them an avoider.

There are several things that contribute to that from their past that we’ll get to in a moment. I don’t want to ignore the things that are happening now in your relationship that might cause them to avoid, that’s the the topic of another article you can find here. 

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