There are many different factors that cause someone to become unfaithful in their marriage.  We’ve been helping couples in our private practice Marriage Solutions approaching 10 years at this point and have helped thousands of couples.  

We don’t just study what makes a healthy marriage and family…we’re in the trenches every day actively working it out with each couple one at a time.  

In this article we explore the deep hidden desires that cause someone to fall into infidelity.  The goal here is to help you heal, prevent this, or keep it from reoccurring again in your relationship.  

We dive really deep into healing couples in our marriage counseling practice.  But we don’t always have the time to explain what we can here on our blog in session because…well…we only have so much time.  

So in this post we’ll talk about…

• The hidden desires that lead to an affair

• The real lack of trust that leads to infidelity

• How islands become unfaithful spouses

• What’s the root of it all

• Giving the best away

• Giving what we don’t have

• So what seeds are planted early on that leads someone to infidelity?

• Why do Pursuers pick Islands?

• Why do Islands pick Pursuers?

• What is the solution?