ATTENTION: COUPLES IN CRISIS

Discover A New Way To Begin Healing And Moving Forward In Your Relationship

After working with over 9 thousand couples* to help them overcome relationship trauma, we’ve developed a proven method to help couples get closure, begin healing, learn to communicate openly, and safeguard their relationship in the shortest amount of time possible.

PS: It does NOT matter where you live.

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Do you feel stuck? Are You Looking For Help?

Do you want to communicate, trust, and feel close to each other again?
Do you feel lost about how to bring happiness back to your relationship?
Maybe you haven't felt happy in a long time and you are looking into getting help?
Have you been to counseling before and it didn't work?
Maybe you've never done this before but you know if you don't do something soon you're relationship may not make it...or you could be miserable for the rest of your lives?
Do you get stuck in horrible arguments? Or do you avoid conflict like the plague so you don't start a fight?
Does it hurt you to see your children caught in the middle of your arguments?
Maybe you don't feel like you can trust each other for whatever reason.
Has the intimacy in your relationship disappeared?

Would You Like Something Different Than What You've Tried Before?

The last thing you want is to try something and just revert back to the same old negative cycle (which I will talk more about in the next video) that you had before you started.

You want it to work, right? That's why you pay us money and we devote all of our time to you. Because you want this to solve your relationship concerns.

We know that the research surrounding our methods show that 90% of the couples maintain their improvement even 3 years after they finish.

So our couples get better and STAY better.

Tired Of The Search? Would You Like A Real Expert To Help You?

Have you considered marriage counseling? The counseling community is kind of like the medical community but also quite different.

Doctors go to medical school. Therapists go to therapy school. Doctors pick a specialty. Therapists typically do not.

Doctors must have specialized training before they cut you open, right? It's their legal duty....Therapists can cut you open emotionally with no real experience.

Well in the counseling community there are two extremes. Relationship coaches are not required to have any training, education, or license...so anyone can call themselves a coach.

Then there are professional counselors like us who have degrees, supervision, continuing education, licenses, and we're governed by the state.

But what the state says is "if you don't FEEL like you can help them, then you should refer them out"...but counselors are wonderful people who want to help. They also need clients so they see everything.

The average counselor is unfocused. They see kids, teenager, families, 10 different individual issues and then they stick two people in a room and call it "couples counseling".

They apply the same methods to couples as they do with every other issue.

That's why we focus on just helping couples. Therapists are jack of all trades. They're not able to get the training necessary to really help couples succeed long term.

Would You Like Proven Results?

Our clients love to recommend us to others. You see a difference very early on. If you follow our plan for you, you will increase your success exponentially.

We have successfully helped thousands of couples. Do you want to communicate with your spouse in a way that feels like they really get you? Do you want to trust each other with the deepest part of your heart so you can relax again? Do you want to feel close emotionally and physically? Do you want to feel deeply madly in love with each other again?

If you answered "yes" to any of those questions then you're in luck! We can help you.

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We Pull Back The Curtain And Remove The Mystery

Every couple encounters negative cycles. Our spouse feels like a mystery. What are they really thinking? Love feels like an elusive mystery...how can we get it AND keep it?

Good news! We remove the mystery of it all.

Now, get what you've hoped for your relationship and your family.

If You Do Nothing...You'll Keep Getting The Same Results...The Consequences Can Be Devastating!

Negative cycles left alone kills intimacy. Negative cycles cause us to hurt each other.

You might fight or argue about little things or you might not fight at all, you might avoid conflict like the plague, but you may not really feel close.

Many people feel that they're always walking on egg shells and not wanting to cause a rift in the relationship...but every once in a while we hit a nerve and trigger a huge negative cycle.

Sometimes if this cycle goes on for too long we look outside of the marriage for the support we need. We begin to feel like roommates with our spouse and many people hear things like "I love you, but I'm not in love with you anymore".

Does this sound like you guys? You are certainly not alone!

What You Get...

Expert Care

We have trained with the top experts in the U.S. & Canada. The significance of this training is that it's based on the only method where couples are fully recovering and where 90% of the couples maintain their improvement even three years after they finish. You won't find what we offer anywhere else.

Specialized Care

We refuse to compromise on quality. While others claim to have a solution they only have a portion of what truly helps couples long term. They say "improved communication" is the key or "conflict resolution" is the ticket to success.

Not only are they unfocused but their methods are not backed by scientific research. They simply THINK it will work but in truth there is no proof of success.

Because of our focus and the methods we us, we have helped thousands of couples successfully turn around situations that have seemed impossible to everyone but us.

A Real Plan

We know what success looks like and we can show you how to be that rogue couple that refuses to simply exist in your relationship. We provide unique advice for each couple that comes into our offices. What we provide is based on mountains of research and hundreds of hours of training. But there are a few common truths that you will find here,

1. We are pro-marriage. This means we will not recommend separation because we believe that if you are coming here you'd like to explore saving your relationship. We know that not every couple decides to stay together. But that is not our decision to make. The only time we recommend separation is when someone's life is in danger.

2. We do professional counseling. While many pastors and churches refer their parishioners to us, we leave the sermons to the pastors and the pastors leave the couples counseling to us. We will never give you weird advice or advice that contradicts your faith in any way.

3. We provide materials and resources for you. Some materials are books you can purchase and some are things we just create in house and provide to you as a part of your time with us. Everything you need can be found in your sessions here with us. So the outside materials really only act as supplements to counseling.

Longterm Results

It boils down to our couples get better AND stay better. That is why you come for help, right? It only makes sense. It makes sense that you would expect your couples counselor to provide you with the tools that will last.

Unfortunately, the tools are only as good as the therapist is at using them. If you think about it, if the therapist can't use the methods that work then how can they help you learn to use them?

All I am trying to say is, not all therapists have the same training and not all therapists are able to help with your relationship issues. That is important to consider.

If you would like to begin healing & get a game plan for restoring your marriage in as little as 3 days read this page and set an appointment.

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Questions + Answers

Q: How can we know if counseling is right for us?

Of course couples counseling needs to be with the right help. This is crucial. It’s the #1 thing most people miss. Ask yourself these questions:

Am I afraid for my life with this person? If you are afraid that they will do you physical harm then couples counseling is NOT right for you. You need to get AWAY FROM THE PERSON and seek individual counseling. There’s something to be said about mental harm as well. But that is a little less black and white and it may be alright to try couples counseling.
Is there an active affair? If yes, then come to counseling with us. If no, then come to counseling with us. Either way we can help you.
Is there an active addiction? If yes, then sometimes people think they need to take care of that BEFORE couples counseling. This is NOT completely true. Taking care of the addiction will be crucial but that won’t fix the issues in the relationship. You need couples therapy AT THE SAME TIME. So set an appointment and we can help your marriage and refer you to the best addiction expert for your situation.
What if there are serious personal issues? If personal issues are messing with your marriage then you will need individual counseling AND marriage counseling. We help individuals with personal traumas that are effecting the marriage as well as with the marriage. You will see that option as you click the link below to schedule an appointment.

Q: Why should we work with you?

We’ve worked with over 9,000 couples. Brad has personally helped over 5,800 couples 1-on-1. The others are split between the other therapists on staff. We’re some of the most experienced and well trained couples therapists in the country.
Our clients are happier when they leave us. It’s important to notice that - #1 they’re happier and #2 they leave us…meaning they finish counseling and it doesn’t take years to get where you want to be in your relationship.
Low rate of relapse. Our couples get better and stay better. We heal the complete person and deal with the underlying issues that lead to problems…not just the surface problems themselves.
Still not sure? Look at our reviews and testimonials.
Not Every Therapist Has The Training Necessary to Help You. It Doesn't Matter What College They Went To Or How Long They've Been In Practice Either

Q: How long does couples counseling take?

The research shows that 75-80% of couples need about 15-20 hours with the primary methods we use. Some couples need less time and others need more. The length of time depends on a number of factors including:

5 Crucial Factors That Impact Your Healing

How you respond to treatment
How open to the process you are
If there has been major trauma in the relationship or in your past then you may need more time
It is important to come consistently to counseling. This means ideally you come every week. We have a few options available if you travel or something prevents you from being able to come every week...we'll share more in a minute...You're learning new things and when couples skip a week they typically re-escalate and fall back into old habits. Many times this can be discouraging and may seem like counseling isn't working but truly it's because you skipped a week. So come consistently every week until you're therapist says you've graduated.
The length of the sessions are really important. Most therapist try to use the same methods for couples that they use for individuals or others. The standard 45-60 minutes is not enough time. It's rushed and more damaging than helpful. That's why our appointments are 2-6 hours. Now if every once in a while you can only do 1 hour...it's better to do 1 hour than it is to skip.

Q: How do we restore our marriage in 3 days?

When couples participate in our Healing Broken Trust workshops some find complete restoration during the 3 day workshop. Learn more here.

Q: Does insurance cover couples counseling?

We can provide you with an itemized receipt with all the coding to submit for out of network reimbursement. Take the itemized receipt we provide you. Send the receipt to your insurance provider and wait for your refund.

Anytime you bill insurance the insurance company typically requires us to diagnose you with a mental health disorder. If you don't mind this then we don't mind providing it for you.

Q: Does insurance cover coaching?

Some insurance is now providing reimbursement for coaching.

Q: My insurance company says they will cover couples counseling. What do I do?

Take the itemized receipt we provide you. Mail it to your insurance provider. They refund you at that point.

Q: Do you take HSAs or HRA cards?

Yes. Typically, they work just fine. When you look at the card it usually has a major credit card company like Visa or Mastercard endorsing it. You should be able to use it when setting your appointments with us.

Q: Do you work with Employee Assistance Providers?

We are happy to work with companies who want to help their employees improve their relationships. However, we are not in contract with any EAPs currently. Many times they dictate care and act very much like insurance providers.

Q: Do you help people outside the U.S.?

Yes - It is part of our mission to help couples and individuals no matter where you are from or where you live. Sometimes there are language barriers. If you would still like to work with us, and do not speak English, then consider bringing an interpreter to the meetings. However, we are not equipped with interpreters on staff.